45 things a Girl loves

Posted by -edz- on 1:27 AM in
--just got this over somewhere and thought of posting it.. it's kinda cute--

1-touch her waist
2-talk to her
3-share secrets
4-give her your jacket
5-kiss her slowly
6-hug her
7-hold her
8-laugh with her
9-invite her somewhere
10-let her be with you when you're with your friends

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11-smile with her
12-take pics with her
13-pull her onto your lap
14-when she says she loves you more,deny it. fight back
15-when her friends say i love her more than you, deny it.
fight back and hug her tight so she cant get to her friends.
it makes her feel loved

Are you thinking about someone?
16-always hug her and say i love you when you see her
17-kiss her unexpectedly
19-tell her she's beautiful not sexy!
20-tell her the way you feel about her! (note: there's two number 20)
20-u need to show her you mean it too
21-kiss her on the lips
22-DON'T ask her to buy you stuff. you buy her stuff
24-make her feel loved
25-buy her small things that can help make her feel special.
28-take her anywhere she wants
29-txt message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her
30-be there for her whenever she needs you, & even when she doesn't need you,just be there so she'll know that she can always count on you

are you still reading this. u better be its important
31. Hold her close when she's cold and she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the tip of her nose;(it will give her the hint that you wantto kiss her).
34. While in the movie, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
35. Dont ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad.
If shes upset, comfort her remember this next time you are with her
36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, Link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
40. When you hug her hold her in your arms as long as possible
41. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for long walks at night
44. Dedicate a song to her.
45. Always Remind her how much you love her. youll never know when she needs just a lil more love

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I Love You

Posted by -edz- on 8:48 AM in
--this is one of those short love stories i stumbled upon on the internet.. and shared with my friends.. it made an impact on me and i just wanna share its' message.. by posting it here.. hope you read it.. its' really sweet and interesting.. and i hope we realize something about life and love from this.. i didn't make any alterations on the story and how it was written..--

I have a boyfriend who grew up with me. His name is Jin. I always thought of him as a friend until last year, when we went to a trip from a club. I found that I fell in love with him.

Before that trip was over, I took a step and confessed my love for him. And soon, we became a pair of lovers, but we loved each other in different ways. I always concentrated on him only, but by his side, there were so many other girls. To me, he was the only one, but to him, maybe I was just another girl…

“Jin, do you want to go watch a movie?” I asked.
“I can’t”
“Why? You need to study at home?” I felt disappointmentgrabbing me.
“No… I am going to meet a friend…”

He was always like that. He met girls in front of me, like it was nothing. To him, I was just a girlfriend. The word ‘love’ only came out from my mouth. Since I knew him, I had never heard him say ‘I love you’ before. To us, there weren’t any anniversaries at all.He didn’t say anything from the first day and it continued till 100 days…200days… Everyday, before we say goodbye, he would just hand me a doll, everyday, without fail. I don’t know why…

Then one day…
Me: Um, Jin, I …
Jin: What…don’t drag, just say..
Me: I love you.Jin: ……you….um, just take this doll and go home.
That was how he ignored my ‘three words’ and handed me the doll. Then he disappeared, like he was running away.

The dolls I received from him everyday, filled my room, one by one. There were many…Then one day came, my 15th year old birthday. When I got up in the morning, I pictured a party with him, and stranded myself in my room, waiting for his call. But… lunch passed, dinner passed… and soon the sky was dark… he still didn’t call. It was already tiring to look at the phone anymore. Then around 2am in the morning, he suddenly called me and woke me from my sleep. He told me to come out of the house. Still, I felt joy and I ran out happily.

Me: Jin…Jin: Here…take this…
Again, he handed me a little doll.
Me: What’s this?
Jin: I didn’t give it to you yesterday, so I am giving it to you now. I’m going home now, bye.
Me: Wait, wait! Do you know what today is?
Jin: Today? Huh?I felt so sad, I thought he would remember my birthday. He turned around and walked away like nothing had happen. Then I shouted…
Jin: You have something to say?
Me: Tell me, tell me you love me…
Jin: What?!
Me: Tell me
I put my pathetic self behind and clung on to him.

But he just said simple cold words and left.“I don’t want to say…that I love someone so easily, if you are desperate to hear it, then find someone else.”

That was what he said. Then he ran off. My legs felt numb… and I collapsed to the ground. He didn’t want to say it easily… How could he…. I felt that… Maybe he is not the right guy for me…
After that day, I stranded myself at home crying, just crying. He didn’t call me, although I was waiting. He just continued handing me a little doll every morning outside my house. That’s how those dolls piled up in my room… everyday

After a month, I got myself together and went to school. But what made the pain resurface was that… I saw him on a street… with another girl… He had a smile on his face, one that he never showed me…as he touched the doll… I ran straight back home and looked at the dolls in my room, and tears fell… Why did he gave these to me… Those dolls are probably picked out by some other girls…In a fit of anger, I threw the dolls around. Then suddenly, the phone rang. It was him. He told me to come out to the bus stop outside my house. I tried to calm myself down and walked to the bus stop. I kept reminding myself that I am going to forget him, that… it’s going to end. Then he came into my sight, holding a big doll.

Jin: Jo, I thought you were pissed, you really came?

I couldn’t help hating him, acting like nothing had happen and joking around. Soon, he held out the doll as usual…

Me: I don’t need it.
Jin: What….why…I grabbed the doll from his hands and threw it on the road.

Me: I don’t need this doll, I don’t need it anymore!! I don’t want to see a person like you again!
I spitted out all the words that were inside me. But unlike other days, his eyes very shaking.

“I’m sorry”
He apologized in a tiny voice. He then walked over to the road to pick up the doll…
Me: You stupid! Why are you picking up the doll?! Just throw it away!!!

But he ignored me and just went to pick the doll. Then…

Honk~ Honk~
With a loud honk, a big truck was heading towards him.
“Jin! Move! Move away!” I shouted…But he didn’t hear me, he squatted down and picked up the doll.
“Jin, move!”
That sound, so terrifying.That’s how he went away from me. That’s how he went away without even opening his eyes to say one word to me. After that day, I had to go through everyday with guiltiness and the sadness of losing him… And after spending two months like a crazy person… I took out the dolls.
Those were the only gifts he left me since the day we started going out. I remembered the days I spent with him and started to count the days… when we were in love…
“One…two… three…”

That was how… I started to count the dolls…
“Four hundred and eighty four… four hundred and eightyfive…”
It all ended with 485 dolls. I then started to cry again, with a doll in my arms. I hugged it tightly, then suddenly…

“I love you~, I love you~”I dropped the dolls,shocked.
“I….lo..ve…you??”I picked up the dolls and pressed its stomach.
“I love you~ I love you~”It can’t be! I pressed all the dolls’ stomach as it piled on the side.

“I love you~”
“I love you~”“I love you~” Those words came out non-stop. I…love you… Why didn’t I realize that….That his heart was always by my side, protecting me. Why didn’t I realize that he love me this much… I took out the doll under the bed and pressed it’s stomach,that was the last doll, the one that fell on the road. It had his blood stain on it.

The voice came out, the one that I was missing so much…

“Jo…Do you know what today is? We’ve been loving each other for 486 days. Do you know what 486 is? I couldn’t say I love you…. Um… since I was too shy… If you forgive me and take this doll, I will say that I love you… everyday… till I die… Jo… I love you…”

The tears came flowing out of me. Why? Why? I asked God, why do I only know about all this now? He can’t be by my side, but he loved me until his last minute…
For that… and for that reason… to me… it became courage… to live a beautiful life….

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Greetings from the Webmaster

Posted by -edz- on 8:16 PM

Hi! Welcome to my blog. Well, our blog. How is that so?
Well, this page is basically about everything! As I say, "There is lesson in randomness!" We just have to know how to squeeze them out and apply those "lessons" in each of our lives, right?

This blog posts an array of entries ranging from poems, songs, news articles, site and book reviews, sometimes even my own reflections, and the lists just goes on and on... Take note though that not all posts were written by me.

So if there's anything you want to share - a poem or song you wrote, a book you just can't stop raving about, or an important lesson you want to share to everyone - feel free to drop your entries in the comments or email me and I'll upload it for you (anonymously, if you want).

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last day of fall semester

Posted by -edz- on 4:11 PM

i just finished my last exam for this semester!! bye fall! hello winter!

i dunno how i did for my 1st sem here! i don't wanna know! i just wanna enjoy the holiday season.. though i know i can't really be happy.. totally.. that's impossible..

but knowing that i have in my life the people i love.. though some are far from me.. that makes it close to that..

yey!!! now.. i'd have to think what im going to do with my time.. hehe..

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If We Fall In Love

Posted by -edz- on 9:15 AM in
by Yeng Constantino and Rj Jimenez

There will be no ordinary days for you
If there is someone who cares like I do
You got no reason to be sad anymore
I’m always ready with a smile
With just one glimpse of you

You don’t have to search no more
‘cause I am someone who will love you for sure

So if we fall in love
Maybe we’ll sing this song as one
If we fall in love
We can write a better song than this
If we fall in love
We will have this melody in our heads
If we fall in love
Anywhere with you will be a better place

You can watch that movies in a different light
So I’ll be right there beside you
Hugging you oh so tight (oh so tight)
Has from never feel so cold and empty again
‘cause I will keep on holding on
And won’t let go (never let you go)


Feels so good when you’re around
One smile from you (one smile from you)
Make my days feel so bright


note: a lot of people are asking for the lyrics of this song.. so i made a copy of it.. i listened to the song itself and not just copied the lyrics from a site.. you'll find that it's more accurate than those posted by others..

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Posted by -edz- on 12:36 PM in

a surprise made by my sister for me!

RockYou FXText - Get Your Own

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old blog

Posted by -edz- on 10:01 AM in
-something i recovered from my very first blog..
first posted last May 8, 2006... wow... nakakatawa.. ang labo ng sinulat ko..-



everything between us happened so fast.. we both didn't see it coming.. aminado kami na ang bilis ng mga pangyayari.. but we are happy.. i know i am and i know he is.. i can feel it.. everyone around us can see it..

we both know na aalis ako.. at first.. we were both hesitant to risk.. he was hesitant..cz he knw na aalis ako.. and ako rin.. i was afraid.. cz i have loved before but just got hurt..i said to myself na ayoko munang umibig.. tinanim ko sa isip ko na i am leaving.. someone was even courting me that time.. but kahit everyday niya pinapakita sakin how much he loves me.. hnd pa rin umubra.. hnd niya nakuha puso ko.. i felt ok.. very ordinary.. someone loves me pero d ko masuklian yung love that he was very willing to give me.. honestly, i felt dry.. i felt ang ordinary ng mga araw ko..

but one day.. napaka unexpected.. he entered my life.. hnd ko pa nga xa kilala pero binati nya ako.. sabi niya "hi crush!" woah!!!!!! i didn't expect that.. his friends didn't... (his friends and isang common friend namin ang naging witness namin..sa lahat..hehehe) and xa din.. he didn't expect na he'd admit to me dat time na crush niya ako.. naging constant ang communication namin.. i thought he would be just like any ordinary guy that came into my life..na ngpakita ng interes..but d ko kayang mahalin in return..pero hnd..he started to become one of my reasons for waking up each day..kahit wla xa sa tabi ko he could me make laugh when no one else could..my days started to become incomplete pag d ko xa nakikita..once, akala ko he would break what he said to me..naiyak ako..hnd ko alam why..siguro kac..mahal ko na xa nun..i did so many stupid things na i didn't expect na magagawa ko..all for him..grabe..foooooooooooorward.....

dey said..laging depende sa tao..love is a decision..and i decided to risk..to love him..i dnt knw why him..but i do know..dat i love him..and im willing to do everything just to see him again..just to be with him again..

i admit.. before.. at some point.. i got scared.. so scared to get hurt.. but he did and said some things that made me realize.. shocks! he does love me so much..

i know people think im still too young to know..i know we just met..we know we just met..we know that things happened so fast..but time doesn't matter..we both felt it..

im willing to fly half around the world.. that far from him.. cause i know that he is gonna wait.. i know he will be there when i get back.. i know that he is gonna follow me.. sounds crazy right? hehehe.. it does.. it does sound silly.. two lovers.. each halfway arnd the world.. so hopeful that someday they'll find each other back in each other's arms.. grabe..

i dont know if all the people will understand.. but i know.. everyone has loved..

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Felt So Right

Posted by -edz- on 9:31 PM in
I love you
I don't know what else to say
Cuz I long for you more each day
I need you
I want to feel your embrace
And have a chance to touch your face

I was lost and alone
But you showed me the way
Now I call you my own
Things will never be the same

How could I’ve known
You will hold me close so tenderly
Even though I’m alone
I can feel your arms enfold in me
And that love, became mine in just one night
When you held me tight
Oooh.. it felt so right

I feel you
You’re always here in my heart
Its where reflection since we fall apart

I was lost and alone
But you showed me the way
Can’t go on, on my own
Wishin’ that you would stay

How could I’ve known
You will hold me close so tenderly
Even though I’m alone
I can feel your arms enfold in me
And that love, became mine in just one night
When you held me tight
Oooh.. it felt so right

I was lost and alone
But you showed me the way
Can’t go on, on my own
Wishin’ that you would stay
Tell me that you would stay... ey

How could I’ve know (how could I’ve known… ohh)
(Ooh)You will hold me close so tenderly (oohh)
(Ooh)Even though I’m alone
I can feel your arms enfold in me (your arms enfold me)
And that love, became mine in just one night
When you held me tight
Oooh.. it felt so right
Felt so right…
Hmmm… felt so right.

***after listening to this song over and over again.. i thought..
i've never had any problems trusting and having faith in anybody.. but giving you those is one of the hardest things i've ever done.. and leaving you is the hardest decision i've ever made.. having those, together with your love and promise, are my only weapons in this strange land.. ***

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simplicity of life

Posted by -edz- on 11:28 PM in
today.. is my brother's birthday and also the feast of immaculate concepcion.. and like the month of september, i also have a lot of friends celebrating their birthdays this month..

it's really late.. and i'm kinda tired of writing.. so i might just have to write in phrases instead of paragraphs.. am i still making sense? uhhh.. i hate this.. this is what it feels like when you're so exhausted and sad..

it's just so funny how we all get sooooooo sad over matters.. like the beauty around us aren't enough to make us feel thankful.. yet it only takes one small thing to make us happy and get rid of all those sadness..

a family is and will always be a family.. no matter how tough the road may seem they will always be there to help you overcome the obstacles you are facing and are still about to face.. no matter how messed up the day may be.. at the end of it, you still have your family waiting for you at home ready to cheer you up!

celebrating once birthday doesn't have to be that costly or grandeur.. having your family with you is more than enough..

being a kid is a gift.. let us not take that away from children and push them to grow up too fast.. because one can only be a child once but, for the rest of his life, he can grow up everyday and be more mature as time flies.. life for them is so simple yet full of love and happiness.. and grown-ups must know to learn from them..

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exhausting day

Posted by -edz- on 10:10 PM in
after a really long and busy weekend..

after a day full of pressure and unexplainable emotions. after all the rounds of impromptu speeches. the day of corporate look!

after all the shopping. the back and forth journey to the fitting room. the make up. the smiles. the soreness of wearing high heels all day.

im back to my regular mondays. but this time i rode the bus to school. the very first monday i chose to take the bus and i made it to the stop before the bus even came.

i had my exam in anthropology and just studied today. few hours before the exam and i had to read two whole books! good thing luck was at my side that time. i think the exam wasn't that bad. better than what i had expected.

one down. 1 million more research papers to go! how am i going to finish all of them when instead of working on them i'm here encoding this. trying to gradually put into words my emotions and thoughts.

emotions? i think i might have to set it aside for now and just take some dosage of emo songs. sounds crazy? sounds like i'm making it worse? well, things can't get any worst. i just don't want it to end. i hate this feeling!

- one has to learn first how to be a member before he jumps to be a leader.

- a leader still has a lot to learn, even from his own members.

- being the leader may not always be the best way to organize things.

- in every situation, there will always be someone who opposes.

- the devil's advocate sure does have some issues.

- being sweet and caring may sometimes be unreciprocated.

- sometimes it's better to let things take their course.

i got a lot of things to say. but i don't wanna put them into words anymore. because it'll just hurt even more.
- seeing and being able to read the pain and the cause just scars.

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Posted by -edz- on 11:00 PM in
i worry:

where is this fate leading me? where is this emotion bringing us? is it here to guide us? or is it here to lead us to a pit to just fall? will you fall with me? or are you gonna hang unto something and just let me go to break?

is this magic just a fantasy from the very beginning? or does everything still have a spark of hope left in it?

everything i am experiencing and achieving now cannot and can never compensate for my longing.. longing to be with the person i once just hoped to come and be a reality..

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